My female Snowshoe Siamese cat hates men over 5 feet 8 inches tall. She hates them so…
My goodness--I didn’t know cats carried measuring tapes with them. *smile* Sorry, I couldn’t resist.Cats love the status quo. If your cat has only been exposed to people under that height, she feels safe and comfortable with them. A man that’s taller than her comfort zone also likely walks with a heavier tread, has a lower voice, and moves very differently. He may even smell BAD to the cat (his cologne, or scent of dog, or other cat-obnoxious scents).
Fix the behavior by first, above all, having your friend ignore the cat. Do not try to touch her. Do not make eye contact. Have him sit on the floor--suddenly he’s shorter than the 5 foot 8 inch scary height. Allow the cat to approach him at her own pace. He can have treats available, or a long distance toy such as a fishing pole with a feather, so she can keep out of reach but enjoy safe interaction. Have him fill her bowl with food so she sees that good things come from men, too.
